refactor: consume vantage-shared as an external private module

shared/ is extracted to gitea.hostxtra.co.uk/vantage/vantage-shared and
pinned at v0.1.0 by server, agent, admin, sitesvc and vantagectl. The
replace directives and the ./shared entry in go.work are gone.

Every Go build now needs a credential for the private module: CI writes a
netrc per job from REGISTRY_USER + RELEASE_TOKEN and sets GOPRIVATE, and
the four Go Dockerfiles take it as a BuildKit secret rather than a build
arg, which would survive in the builder layer's history. RELEASE_TOKEN
needs read access to the vantage org.

admin, sitesvc and vantagectl now build from their own directory; only
server still needs the repository root, for default_steps/. The rebuild
triggers in server-deploy.yml lose their shared/ patterns, since a
service now moves when its own go.mod pin does.

go.work.sum

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 cloud.google.com/go/compute v1.25.1/go.mod h1:oopOIR53ly6viBYxaDhBfJwzUAxf1zE//uf3IB011ls=
 cloud.google.com/go/compute/metadata v0.3.0/go.mod h1:zFmK7XCadkQkj6TtorcaGlCW1hT1fIilQDwofLpJ20k=
+gitea.hostxtra.co.uk/vantage/vantage-shared v0.1.0/go.mod h1:dWjeOFLltQ8sv9Pnn1xRxGfWGgqa2fkG0esuaJLoPXQ=
 github.com/Intevation/gval v1.3.0/go.mod h1:xmGyGpP5be12EL0P12h+dqiYG8qn2j3PJxIgkoOHO5o=
 github.com/Intevation/jsonpath v0.2.1/go.mod h1:WnZ8weMmwAx/fAO3SutjYFU+v7DFreNYnibV7CiaYIw=
 github.com/VividCortex/ewma v1.2.0/go.mod h1:nz4BbCtbLyFDeC9SUHbtcT5644juEuWfUAUnGx7j5l4=
@@ -76,6 +77,8 @@ golang.org/x/xerrors v0.0.0-20191204190536-9bdfabe68543/go.mod h1:I/5z698sn9Ka8T
 golang.org/x/xerrors v0.0.0-20231012003039-104605ab7028/go.mod h1:NDW/Ps6MPRej6fsCIbMTohpP40sJ/P/vI1MoTEGwX90=
 google.golang.org/appengine v1.6.8/go.mod h1:1jJ3jBArFh5pcgW8gCtRJnepW8FzD1V44FJffLiz/Ds=
 google.golang.org/genproto/googleapis/api v0.0.0-20240318140521-94a12d6c2237/go.mod h1:Z5Iiy3jtmioajWHDGFk7CeugTyHtPvMHA4UTmUkyalE=
+google.golang.org/genproto/googleapis/rpc v0.0.0-20240318140521-94a12d6c2237/go.mod h1:WtryC6hu0hhx87FDGxWCDptyssuo68sk10vYjF+T9fY=
 google.golang.org/protobuf v1.26.0-rc.1/go.mod h1:jlhhOSvTdKEhbULTjvd4ARK9grFBp09yW+WbY/TyQbw=
+google.golang.org/protobuf v1.33.0/go.mod h1:c6P6GXX6sHbq/GpV6MGZEdwhWPcYBgnhAHhKbcUYpos=
 gopkg.in/alecthomas/kingpin.v2 v2.2.6/go.mod h1:FMv+mEhP44yOT+4EoQTLFTRgOQ1FBLkstjWtayDeSgw=
 k8s.io/utils v0.0.0-20201110183641-67b214c5f920/go.mod h1:jPW/WVKK9YHAvNhRxK0md/EJ228hCsBRufyofKtW8HA=